Re: looking for Yinka a nigirian female who worked at 7 north audley street London, UK around 1984/1985

Yinka, if you get this message, please email me at the SEND ME AN EMAL link. I've been thinking of you and the son that I may be the father of. Just in case you don't remember me, I'm Charles. I was stationed at 7 north Audley from 1984-1986 where you also worked in the Main Brace as a food server. Although you had another friend in college during that timeframe, you and I became friends/lovers. The last time that I saw you was when you were about to get aboard a bus while being pregnant. I can't remember the other young lady (who was also nigerian) you worked with but, it was her that told me that the little boy looked just like me. I woudl love to see both of you.

Yinka,
I't been 8 years since I first posted this but no response. After reading it again I realized that I may have left out some vital information which may have caught your attention. I was in the U.S. Navy and staioned over in London (NAVCOMMU LONDON/CINCUSNAVEUR) from 1984-1986. I drove a little red (2) seater car - which I took you home in many times.You worked down stairs in the eating area/club. This is where I met you. I used to flirt with you all the time until we finally got together. I also use to take you to my apartment and we had great times together. At the time, you also had a boyfriend who was attending College in Oxford and would come back down sometimes on the weekends. I also thank that you had an apartment at Elephant and Castle. There came a time when you got pregnant but, as of today, I don't know why we stopped seeing each other. As I stated above, the last time I saw you, you were getting aboard a bus and I called out your name while you were boarding. That was the last time I saw you but, I did see and talk to other Nigerian girl who also worked alongside you as a server. I remember that she had tribal markings below both of her eyes. Anyway, she is the one who told me that you had had the baby and it was a boy who looked just like me. Although he should be a grown man (26-28) by now, I would love to see and get to know him. I am now 53 but after all these years, i have never forgotten you. You too should be around 50 or so as well. If you get this message, please try to contact me. My email address is smithch1@msn.com.

man Charles,you are the man my man!now I believe the light bulb is turning off right?what I can tell you,It was going to be helpfull if you knew the lady's last name.Going to the area where she was staying might be easier,and if you can get in facebook and plaster a big message about some son in London maybe who is looking for his father,that might help.post your pics,and specify that if you are between 28-29yrs willing to know your father,compare the pics.If her friend once claimed you looked just like the boy,it my be possible to find him.We had a wonderful father-son reunion in New York in May if you saw that.is possible,keep hope up and good luck

I don't know who you are but, thanks for the advise. I wished I knew her last name but, I almost sure that her first name is somewhat unique in London unless, I am not spelling it correctly. It might be spelled Yenka vice Yinka. I don't remember but I do know that I will that I can locate her and my alleged son.

Hello. You spelt the name correctly. I'm Nigeria and that's the correct spelling. If you can get her last name I can help you out. God bless you. You can contact me on this email val4love14@gmail.com I'm willing to help you.

Thanks for your reply. As you notice, I don't get up on this site too often. With that said, I am wondering if the following will help?

The young lady in question gave birth to a male child in London back around 1985 of 1986. And the child should be a grown man now around 28 or 29 years old. I am sure that London did not have too many Nigerian women with the name Yinka around that timeframe. In addition, she was dating a Nigerian guy who was attending college in Oxford around that time as well. She and I worked in the same U.S. Navy building (7 North Audley Street). I was in the U.S. Navy and she worked in the restaurant/bar down in the basement area (the Main Brace). I am sure that if somehow this information is relayed to her, she will know who I am. Any assistance you can provide will be greatly appreciated. I would love to see my son.