Hey hey
This is probably too late, but thought I'd give it a go anyway
All my information is based upon your marrying your fiance before setting foot on the island and is just my opinion, so get anything I say checked and verified by an official
As far as I know, being legally married to a Dutch person should automatically give you the right of abode - As Rep.Ire, N.Ireland and Netherlands are all members of the EU. Having said that, despite your intention to reside in our gloriously damp island (You're very welcome, btw and we all hope you have a wonderful time here
it might make more sense to contact the Dutch authorites re. your marriage and see what red tape (if any) there is from that end. I'd imagine all the IRish govt needs is a legal marriage cert. and the Dutch authorities would be your place for that.
From what I know, I'd say you'd be absolutely fine - I'm pretty sure that the IRish government fully recognises the legality of Dutch marriage; therefore, as a spouse, I'd be shocked if they did not allow you to stay.
On that basis alone, you shouldn't even have to worry about three month visas etc. Your husband-to-be is a EU citizen and that allows him to live in Ireland whenever and for as long as he wants. Just the same way I can up sticks tomorrow and mvoe to the Netherlands, should that be my wish.
I'm actually moving in the other direction down to South Africa from Ireland. Have my factor 50 sunblock at the ready
Can't wait
Hey, if you have any problem or would like me to enquire on your behalf, let me know - probably be a lot cheaper my phoning from here.
THis might help you get the info you need:
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www.inis.gov.ie]
Actually I just emailed them:
"Dear Sir/MAdam,
I would be grateful if you might take a moment to answer the following question:
My Dutch friend is married to a South African national - Can she legally reside in Ireland alongside her husband?
Thank you for any efforts made on my behalf "
Short and sweet
Hope it works out!!